diff --git a/src/ui/SettingsDialog.svelte b/src/ui/SettingsDialog.svelte
index 9c495f9..5c25220 100644
--- a/src/ui/SettingsDialog.svelte
+++ b/src/ui/SettingsDialog.svelte
@@ -62,7 +62,7 @@
     <h3>Screen sharing</h3>
     <label for="s-stun">STUN server <span class="opt">(optional)</span></label>
     <input id="s-stun" bind:value={s.stunServer} onchange={() => store.saveSettings()} placeholder="stun.example.com:3478" autocomplete="off" />
-    <p class="help">Screen sharing connects you directly to the people watching. Behind most home routers that needs a STUN server to find a route; it learns your IP address but never sees the stream. Empty means no outside server is contacted, which works on the same network and often over IPv6.</p>
+    <p class="help">Screen sharing connects you directly to the people watching. Across the internet both the person sharing and the people watching need a STUN server here to find a route; it learns your IP address but never sees the stream. Empty means no outside server is contacted, which only works on the same network.</p>
   {:else if tab === 'sounds'}
     <SoundSettings />
   {:else if tab === 'appearance'}
diff --git a/src/ui/VoiceStage.svelte b/src/ui/VoiceStage.svelte
index 8fab3d2..440a25d 100644
--- a/src/ui/VoiceStage.svelte
+++ b/src/ui/VoiceStage.svelte
@@ -169,7 +169,7 @@
         {/each}
       </ul>
       {#if watching?.state === 'failed'}
-        <p class="failed">Could not connect to the stream. You and the other person may both be behind routers that block direct connections; a STUN server in Settings, Voice can help.</p>
+        <p class="failed">Could not connect to the stream. Across the internet both of you need a STUN server set in Settings, Voice (the person sharing has to restart the stream after setting it).</p>
       {/if}
     {/if}
   </section>